Forget about appearance and attraction, relationships are built on non-intimate turn ons, the magical little moments that get you thinking, “oh, I like this person.” The green flags and positive vibes versus the red flags and dealbreakers, are what can determine if someone is right for you. Of course, for book lovers, finding the right fit goes beyond everyday green flag and red flags. Readers have higher standards, and it’s not just because of all the swoony romances and amazing book boyfriends out there. We know that you can tell a lot about a person from their bookshelf. So, to offer a bit of guidance to those looking to find their way into a bookish heart, we’ve put together a list of our biggest non-intimate turn ons, and turn offs. Here are the relationship green flags and red flags for readers and book lovers. Green Flag Green Flag Smosh GIFfrom Green Flag GIFs Sends real texts, not just the dreaded “hey.” Their texts are whole paragraphs with detials, jokes, and genuine curiosity. They drive conversation. Bonus Points: Double texting! It means they immediately thought of something they just HAVE to tell you. They have “quirky” or “weird” hobbies. Even better?